Who is your best friend in your marriage?
There is a saying that goes: "If you want a friend you be one". Sometimes we want to change our spouse to be who we want them to be. Over time we find this impossible. This could lead to arguments, misunderstanding and other marriage conflicts. We should know that we cannot change others unless they want the change themselves.
However, change your approach towards your spouse, over time, consciously, and you will see the magical change in them.
But be your best friend first to be a friend to your spouse and to others.